During the weeks that BJ was in the hospital and Brent and Deanna were staying there with him our family was blessed to meet scores of their friends and to get to know several of them on a deeper level. What incredible support was shown from the three churches they had been part of as a family. The level of support given and love shown was beyond anything I had experienced.

Their friends took the rest of our families under their wings offering whatever of themselves they could to try and make a difficult situation better for each of us, because of their love for the Lord and the way it permeated their lives.

As a frequent recipient I found myself wondering who in my own life I had ever shown this type of love and compassion to? Who would I be willing to go to such lengths for? This weighed on my heart and has been convicting.

On two occassions last fall I was able to go with groups of these same wonderful people to do hurricane relief work, what wonderful hearts and pure motives I saw in those around me. What a blessing to be ministered to as we met the needs of others. These experiences allowed me the opportunity to see that this is the way these folks lead their lives daily, not just occassionally.

Who around you is hurting today physically, emotionally or spiritually? What are you doing to lighten their load - if only a little bit? You might be suprised at how much a "little" can do when the Lord is in the mix! Reach out and make a positive difference in at least one life today, I'm guessing you won't even have to go very far out of your way to do so.

Lord, we lift up Tina's friend and his family this morning and pray that you would bring healing to all parts of the body and soul. You are able to intervene in so many ways, we pray that above all, your will is done through this tragic accident. Be with those involved Lord and bring them the peace, comfort or conviction they need to deal with the aftermath of such a tragic experience.

We also thank you for your presence with the team today and in the coming weeks, smooth out the road before them, give them confidence and strength and soften the hearts of those they will be in contact with. As the family scatters BJ's ashes and praises are lifted up to you for his brief life and ministry, comfort them and make your face known to them in a very real way.

Thank you Lord for your provision in all things. In Jesus' name, Amen.

Brad